November 24, 2013 "No Other Gods" by Elder Dallin H. Oaks
November Presidency Message: Establish a House of Thanks and Giving
Since it's November, my thoughts have been focused on the upcoming holidays. I've been pondering how we can increase both our gratitude and generosity this season. I was reading about gratitude in an article entitled Selfless Gratitude (Yoga Journal, http://www. yogajournal.com/gratitude) and I was quite surprised by what I found I had overlooked when thinking of gratitude. It is a much more complex concept than I had realized.
Think about the variations of gratitude. Sometimes people feel gratitude in a way that is indebted or feeling like they owe something in return. Sometimes people feel gratitude in what could be described as a judgement & discernment spectrum; this happens when we compare situations. It can be a negative form, when we are comparing and contrasting what is good in our lives to what we judge to be bad in someone else's or vice versa. Or it can be positively motivated, when we prayerfully acknowledge God's hand in all we have and feel gratitude for recognizing our ability to meet another's need. We feel appreciation for our abundance which motivates selfless generosity, freely giving out of Christ-like love for Heavenly Father's children.
This is the essence of the true spirit of the law of the fast. When Bishop challenged us to give a "more generous fast offering," some of us may have felt like we were already giving our version of the "widow's mite". With a heart full of gratitude for the Lord's blessings in our lives, we may be able to prayerfully discover that we can increase our fast offerings. Only through guidance by the Holy Spirit of truth can we honestly evaluate our circumstances and offer a sacrifice that is acceptable unto the Lord. Through careful budgeting and attention to our finances we can discern the difference between our needs and wants and keep our desires within the bounds the Lord has set. It is our prayer as a Relief Society presidency that we will each be able to Establish a House of Thanks and Giving, as we reflect on the variety of blessings we receive.
With love,
Jennifer, Tiffiny, Yvonne and Breann